Posts Tagged ‘Simplify’

Neighbors

Sunday, June 14th, 2009

neighbors
With cell phones, cable and the internet, people find less and less time to go out and associate with their neighbors in any kind of meaningful way. This creates misunderstandings, fear and sometimes ill feelings that don’t need to be there.  Find time to walk out the door with the specific purpose of interacting with your neighbors.  Get to know them.  Even if you don’t know them, or feel they are not very nice, bake them some cookies, a pie or a loaf of bread, write them a short note – anything – and take it to them.  

More than ever today, we need friends and hopeful positive feelings in our neighborhoods.  We need to stop living in fear of each other, start taking care of each other and get to know each other.  Some of my closest, most cherished friends began as misunderstood, pre-judged enemies!

Spring Cleaning

Saturday, May 23rd, 2009

Get rid of anything you haven’t used in a year – that goes for the kids as well. Let’s be honest, you didn’t wear that sweater last winter you are not going to wear it next year. Get rid of useless items and make room for life.

Don’t Expect More Than People Can Give

Friday, May 15th, 2009

 Generally speaking, no one is going to truly understand that you have had a bad day at work, home or where ever it is you’ve been.  And, it is unrealistic for you to expect them to.  Sometimes the most peace you will feel is learning what you can expect and what you can not expect out of people – especially your own family.  Expecting too much from people – especially family members, will always lead to hurt feelings and tremendous disappointment.

Simplify Your Calendar

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

Only use one calendar. Although it may be tempting to use your work calendar for work and your sticky pads for soccer games, dry cleaning pick-up times and your PDA for random social events in between, you are going to drive yourself crazy! Consolidate your event tracking to one calendar for a more organized, sane life.